How can I be BETTER?

I feel super worry for my girl today. She is so sad and disappointed, but i can't do anything. What I am doing now is just looking at her get hurt. Think of it, if it was other guy with her, the guy will know what to do to encourage her. I know i should not say that but this is what I feeling right now. I know what should need the must is a listening ear, thank God I am quite good at it. Hope after today she will feel better. Feel like hugging her and tell her how much I love her.